A man

Right now I’m doing a case about petition for dissolution of marriage. It’s the husband who (at last) decided to make the petition. I’m quite cynical about this fella at first, but it turns out to be other feelings as I go along the case. Just imagine, this husband has waited for his wife for 18 years!!!!! He makes me realized that love is not something that you can see, but it’s the sacred thing that you can always feel.; even if that person is not with you anymore.; even is that person doesn’t love you anymore; regardless of everything. If there’s no love, you cannot do what he has been doing for that period of time. When I asked him where the wife is; he just told me that she went with another man. And guess what? He has been waiting for his wife for 18 years just to know that all these while, that lady was living happily with another man. All these while, he always makes believe that his wife was living somewhere for some good reason, and will come back to him one sweet day. The wife always sent him card on their anniversary. The sad thing is, before the wife left, there’s no argument between them as they always live with “more than enough”. The husband has biggg bungalows, a lott of money, and indeed he is the gentleman type of husband. I know that you will say money is not everything, but what else that you need after having someone that you’ve known for 25 years, have been in love for 4 years before got married, and the marriage was bless by both family. Luckily they don’t have any children, and that’s the reason why he at last, decided to divorce. I do disappoint with the lady. Why??? How could you do that to that person? To your husband? You have promise to be with him till death apart. Even if you cant do anything because there’s no that so-called love anymore, please…tell him. Don’t just go away, left that person, giving him hopes by sending cards whatsoever, giving him the courage to pray for you, and after 18 years, you appears simply to make him know that all these 18 years, you are living happily without no regret, no guilty with another man!!! It’s cruel, you know.

You are not only breaking down someone’s heart, but you are destroying his life.

And it hurts a lot.

Just imagine what would you do if you were in his shoes.